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Writer's pictureAimee Reese

Every Obstacle You Encounter Leads To Your True Goals And Dreams So You Have To Stand And Face It


Life is constantly throwing clogs on the wheels of our progress. It doesn’t want the weak and visionless to reap from its many bounties. Life’s myriad challenges and trials are assignments that we must successfully pass if we must succeed.

Every goal or dream that we set for ourselves that will help us lead the kind of life that we always desired is met and matched with commensurate obstacles, stumbling blocks and setbacks.

It is commonly said that “Nothing good comes easy,” so you must always be on your feet to look out for opportunities from our challenges. After all, it is also said that “Necessity is the mother of invention,” this simply means that the problems you face can direct you to learn how to conquer unknown horizons and to discover great but hidden potentials that you have.

Any life pursuit, be it in your career, business or relationships that you have that is not faced with setbacks may be a road that leads to nowhere. To be achievers worthy of note, we must have a Plan B to emaneuver our way when things go awry.

The Major Obstacles On The Path Of Achieving Our Goals And Dreams And How To Overcome Them

Experts have classified the major obstacles that life throws on our paths as follows:

Personal Obstacles

Personal obstacles are those that we create ourselves. They are mostly psychological and include negative mindsets, debilitating habits, weak emotions, unfounded fears, lacklustre attitudes, self-doubt, procrastination, impatience, perfectionism, too much complaining, and giving up at the drop of a hat.

To overcome these personal obstacles, there is the need for mental and psychological re-evaluation, value re-orientation, mind-building, setting priorities right and learning from the experiences of mentors.

Social Obstacles

Social obstacles arise from our day to day interaction with other people. They may arise from lack of support or cooperation, discouragement, incompetent partners, and downright sabotage of your efforts.

A major step towards overcoming these obstacles is to understand that humans are not perfect and will exhibit questionable and unpalatable character traits. Planning well, being empathic, that is, putting yourself in other peoples’ shoes and seeing things from their points of view, and most importantly, standing strongly for your beliefs will be immensely helpful.

Environmental Obstacles

These obstacles seem to be the hardest to overcome as they pertain to circumstances and unexpected conditions that you have little control over. They may be in the form of natural phenomena that try to quench your dreams, such as a forced change in location or residency, fire in the business premises, and related situations.

To properly prepare for these obstacles, there is need to be proactive, foresighted, and adopt adequate safety precautions.

In conclusion, it is important that we understand that obstacles are a healthy part of the process of self-discovery, self-improvement, success and living a worthwhile life. They are not meant to kill or destroy us but are there to challenge our ability to think out of the box, find our way around our problems, and so be able to have a thorough and well-deserved enjoyment of any successes that we achieve.


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