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Writer's pictureAimee Reese

The Hardest part of doing anything in Life is taking the First step


When one is set for a particular new task, taking the first step is seldom easy. Primarily, the first step towards changing your life is acknowledging and accepting where you are right now. By establishing where you are in life, you ultimately give yourself an apparent power to do something about it. Often, it hurts; it is also scary to accept where you are right now, but you ought to do it, it’s the best thing to do. So, how can we stimulate the need to take the first step? Here are some ways:

Take time to reflection

It is not a bad thing when you decide to step out of your everyday life for a moment. It gives you time reflect. As much as possible ensure there are no distractions, for instance, turn off the radio, the television. Allow yourself to be alone with your life however it looks. At this time you can make divisions of where you are in all aspects of life-health, work, lifestyle, marriage, passion as well as the state of mind. In fact, acknowledging and accepting where we are in the first step to consciously achieve change. At this point, switch naturally.

Decide what you want

How many of us can list at least five most significant things we need to get out of life more specifically? It seems an obvious question, but few know what they want to do and know when they get the destination. Deciding on what you want in life enables you to figure out what you ought to get out of your life regarding the quest at hand. For instance, if your work does not impress you, there is something you can do about it. Be specific about what you want, and you will positively shift towards the change.

First things first

It is very healthy to do the first things first. Consequently, the subsequent become easy or even unnecessary. Interestingly, the second step is often more natural to embark on if you have taken the first step. Have you tried making the second and the third level without having had to take the first, often, we stumble and fall? Realistically, we do not even consider them because they look difficult. As Mother Theresa noted, "If you cannot feed a thousand people, feed one." Determine what the priorities in your life and embark on them step by step that way you will realize you have had the first level while you are midway the journey to success.

In conclusion, you will not be in a position to take sustainable steps towards progress and change until you look where you are then take in a deep breath. In fact, you ought to realize that if you got to a certain point and you are unhappy about, it is only you who can make the change. Take the first step, that all you need to start.


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