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Writer's pictureAimee Reese

Overthinking Prevents You From Moving Forward


It is common knowledge that life throws challenges at everyone. For this reason, many people find themselves thinking of possible solutions to their problems. Thinking is an important part of man's existence. Before you set goals, it is necessary to think things through. You need to know how such goals will affect your life and how you can reach them. If you plunge right into your goals without deliberating on its relevance as well as what you need to accomplish them, you will likely meet with disappointment. However, while trying to think of possible ways to reach your goals and improve your life, you may fall into the trap of overthinking. Apart from having a negative effect on your mental health, overthinking prevents you from moving forward and making the most out of your life. Overthinkers are plagued by negative thoughts. If they aren't beating themselves up over a past mistake, then they are worried about how to succeed in the future. Overthinking makes it difficult for you to get out of your head and take action. People who constantly find themselves deliberating on every matter live in fear of the future. The fact that they cannot predict the future and control everything around them causes them great anxiety. Overthinkers fear to fail. Instead of taking action towards actualizing their goals, they simply sit and mull over all the options available to them. Their incessant desire for perfection makes it impossible for them to accept failure. Overthinkers often come up with excuses why they cannot take action. The first being that the time is not right. Well, the time will never be right as long as you fear to make mistakes. Remember that in your struggle to achieve great things and reach new heights, you must make mistakes. The lessons you learn help you to make better decisions in the future. When you focus on perfection, you may unknowingly begin to doubt your ability to do things well. Overthinking limits your creative and innovative abilities. While it is beneficial to calculate risk before taking action, you also need to learn how to trust your intuitive abilities. Innovation happens with impulses. So if you can think of an idea, get up and do it. Thinking too much can make you second guess yourself. The desire for perfection pushes you to analyze and reanalyze your situation, before making choices constantly. This means that you will not be able to make decisions within a short time. When you waste precious time thinking about what should and should not be, you end up achieving nothing. If you keep deliberating on your goals instead of taking needed steps you may begin to hate your goals, seeing them as irrelevant and impossible to achieve. Yes, overthinking can cause you to exaggerate your problems, viewing them as insurmountable. When you develop the habit of thinking, planning, evaluating and reevaluating your plans even before you take any action, you will create problems that never existed in the first place. Overthinking isn't productive, and it will definitely not take you anywhere. You will only be stuck in your own head. Distract your mind from negative thoughts and work on reaching your goals. The only way to break free from overthinking is to trust yourself, challenge your thought and act on your ideas.


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