Human beings are holistic in that when they change a part of any system; they affect the whole. The inner voice that accompanies every situation in our life never lies. When one area is out of alignment, then every aspect of your life suffers. Although, it is easy to push specific areas in life like health and relationships; you unwittingly infect your life. Every time you go against your will, there is a consequence.
Being holistic, everything you embark on affects you for better or worse. In fact, every decision you make has an opportunity cost. By choosing one thing, you avoid selecting others. Realistically, when we say to ourselves that we can have everything to ourselves; we are lying. Consequently, we have the power to discern between good and evil. Our inner self will always make the right choice when we allow. Do not lure situations in your life to savor the benefits of people's approval; listen to the inner voice. It is this voice that will enable us to be ourselves regardless of what others say about us.
Aspects of responsibility and accountability are within. The flexibility of a reed is a must have when you make a decision that later fails. Desist entirely from always defending your point of view to please anyone. Work with the truth as it requires no revision. Do not struggle to have your ideas win; you will only give birth to arguments. Work as per your will and have the benefit to access an enormous amount of energy within you.
Primarily, your will is the key to cultivating a positive attitude. A habit of feeling positive about yourself keeps a reality of who you are. In effect, you develop an internal power that can never be affected by the outside world. As a result, your identity does not depend on the external sources. It is effortless to connect with actual self and feels comfortable being you. At this juncture, when the real you achieve a definition, then you attract what suits you.
You no longer dwell on only what matters to you and own that. In fact, you are very okay even when people do not want to spend time with you. Living up to everyone's expectation is a loss. No individual can be everything. Surprisingly, you end up being nothing. Perhaps their tastes and preferences differ with yours; which is not a bad thing. For instance, being kind, caring, and supportive and loving, are all internal attributes. A kind person will attract a kind person and so is a caring, supportive and a friendly person.
If you feel you have doubts about whom you relating to, it is an implication something is wrong. Relinquish yourself from pleasing your colleagues but rather ponder and reflect on the way forward. Get to task without tormenting or straining yourself; determine what to do. If nothing is working, let go elegantly. Your choices have to enjoy a sense of consideration without consultation.
Follow your heart as it is the only source of viable positive selection and direction. Consequently, you obliterate from exposing yourself to those who do not care about your feelings. Develop and nurture healthy relations with authenticity by following the personal will of your heart.
