An essential element showing that we efficiently care for ourselves is the application of discernment in our relationships. It's unfortunate that many of us will hold onto relationships with people who drain our energy, resources, confidence, and joy. These people will show up in the skin of friends, business partners, co-workers or people we share within the spiritual community.
As a result, it is crucial to be in a position to identify the toxic people. It’s by determining them that you will have the right people on board as well as relations. The following are traits of wrong people:
A sense of jealousy and resentment
Toxic people will always express a feeling of jealousy and envy towards you. A genuine friend never grows jealous; instead, they feel fantastic when you show signs of development in any aspect. For instance, if you procure a vehicle before them, they feel a sense of appreciation.
Complain often and have a constant pessimistic view of life
How you regard yourself translates into how you view life. When you perceive yourself positively, your view life positively and vice versa. How you see yourself equally affects those who you attract. People who are confident towards their life assume a high self-esteem. These people don't wilt and give up to disorders as they are optimistic. They work with opportunities that appear beside challenges in disguise. Spend time with optimists to avoid weakening your positivity and resolve to be better.
Get you to do things you avoid
If you have colleagues who lure you to do things you do not want, you are relating to toxic people. Usually, these people fight for the appreciation of their points of view disregarding yours. Often, you may be afraid of giving in and at the same time fearful of damaging the relationship through refusal. Be you and nobody else and embark on what you view right. It is not easy, but it is worth. As a result, no one will influence your way of doing things nor will you dwell on other people’s approval. You will attend to your stuff authentically.
Blame you for their unhappiness
There is nobody who is responsible for our happiness. We are all accountable for our pleasure. Blaming others for your ill feelings is a sign of irresponsibility. Interact with responsible people as they do not blame anyone or anything for their situations. They are aware that every case has a seed of opportunity hence transformation makes the situation better. Also, they do not belittle your abilities as you measure up to the standards of every errand.
In conclusion, any relationship that consistently brings you down requires instant attention and rethinking. Relate with people who are kind, caring, supportive and enthusiastic. Best people are those that feel genuine joy when we succeed. There is no justification towards constant negativity. Place yourself in an environment that is favors your growth and fulfillment.
