Life happens around us everyday as we carry out different activities, and meet with other people; we often try to do things that should gain every other person's admiration and appreciation, but instead we get just few commendations and so much criticism and fault finding from people. Many people have grown to develop a negative mindset over the long years from experiencing fault finding from the people around them, and this has made a lot of thing to go wrong in our societies.
Finding faults is the easiest thing to do when someone positions their mind to detect only negativity, there can be so many faults found in anything that seems like the best solution to a problem. Finding faults in people or things around us does not make those people or things wrong or disqualified, it only points out where improvements can be made; and it will only take a positive minded person to seize the chance to think up good ideas.
Fault finding has the power to make things better when the mind of the person who has chosen to find faults is gearing towards positivity; this means that when this person detects a fault they do not disclose it until they have done good thinking about it, and have discovered a better idea to resolve the problem that was caused by the old faulty idea. This cannot be said about a person who holds a negative mindset when finding faults; because a negative mindset blocks out all the good solutions that should be suggested, and this person always wants to make caricature of the person or thing that holds the faults.
Fault finding can demoralize people when the bad influence of the fault finders begin to have effect on them negatively; they may begin to feel that their best effort means nothing since it holds some faults in it. This is the wrong way to look at fault finding; it is supposed to serve as a signal that points every person to the direction where they need to make improvements or adjustments and learn new ways to be the best of themselves.
When there is a person who enjoys finding faults in everything you do and even in the nature of your body, you should create a strong positive mindset that accepts the observations they make; you are to use these faults they point out to help you learn about the areas where you discover some slack and loop holes, think towards positive solutions and apply them to become better. There will be very significant growth and good self development achieved; and you will begin to unravel the better person in yourself.
With the information which I have shared with you, I can clearly say that a situation where people find faults in your actions is not an entirely bad situation; it should be seen an opportunity for you to grow and learn.
