Why would you want to always be in the corner when you can truly be out there doing what your heart is telling you to do.
Living in this world can be so beautiful for a person who knows what to do, when to do it and how to do exactly that. A person with this kind of knowledge will have proper control of the mind and will not seem to struggle with any situation in life.
Many a time, we find out that we know a solution to some kind of problem, and the persons suffering this problem seem to pretend about their situation and this confuses us on whether to approach them with a helping hand or just not be rude by intrude on their privacy. Then, we tend to stay in our corner and try to go unnoticed.The attitude of going unnoticed begins to be usual as we realize that almost everyone around us pretends about their situation. This can contribute to the sad fact where a person will loose their confidence, self esteem and the zeal to use our abilities to help other people.
Again, you tend to hold back from doing anything because of the thought that you need to know exactly how to do everything before you begin; and since this ideal state cannot be achieved, it happens that you do not begin anything at all. In the long run, your mind may begin to accept that you are just not good for anything.
Most times, people who develop low self esteem from situations like this ask for advices from friends and family, and all they hear is - that is life for you, just stay in your own corner and avoid people as much as you can. I wan to break it clear here and now to you that you cannot just stay in your corner and go unnoticed, why would you want to always be in the corner when you can truly go out there, and do what your heart tells you to do. People who suffer different problems and still pretend are only scared of being laughed at or becoming the talk of the town; so if you go close and provide the solution they need, you can just be a gift to the world.
Now, before going out there you may need to train your heart and mind, so that they would not miss guide you in some complicated situations. You will need to first, go out in search of a mentor or life coach; since you will need to do the things that your heart tells you, you need to ask deep questions in your heart, build your self esteem and courage, then make sure to test the responses with the help of a more experienced person. You will notice that as you often follow your thoughts, you continue to get better at it, this is about learning to trust in the process and you should remember that practice makes perfect.
Begin to read great books and always go out for walk outs. Exercise your body and your mind, teach your heart how to work as a team with the mind. Engage in healthy conversations like sharing ideas, hearing the true opinions of new different people about activities and their real suggestion.
You are out there already; just keep building and then shine bright.
