There is a common saying that goes" The heart wants what the heart wants." this phrase is usually interpreted to mean "people can't choose who they fall in love with." In this context, however, we consider how people feel happy when they make choices based on their inclination and not because of others. While we are not to ignore sensible advice and concerns, it is usually just best to go with one’s feelings. If anything goes wrong from here, you are typically in a better position to take responsibility for your actions. Although, it appears that a decision made based on a person's inclination or gut feeling is almost never wrong. The thing is, your heart does know what you want even if at first, it may not seem logical.
When you decide to go with your heart, you may not get the support you anticipated. In times like this, you have to stay focused on your goal and continually remind yourself the reason you have chosen to make this decision. Here are a few things to help you follow your heart desire.
Passion First
Your passion should be your priority. You find very few people follow their passion. So many people are stuck in jobs and relationships they dislike because of fear. In chasing your passion, you have to choose between fear of the unknown and regret. Regret because when you do not follow your passion, you find yourself looking back and asking “what if?” if you do not want to constantly look back in regret, then go with your heart.
There are two types of people when it comes to passion. We have those who know their passion and those who do not. The former have their passion as second nature to them and are more likely to pursue same.
These group of persons would feel out of place otherwise. The later, are not conscious of their passions. They have to keep trying different things to find out what it is. This group is made up of people who remain in their comfort zones.
People’s Opinion Second
As much as valid concerns should be noted, you have no business dwelling on the lack of support of your friends and family. If you are the earner in the family, you really should consider what impact your actions will have on your family, particularly when there are kids. Before quitting your job, for instance, you should have saved enough or made some investment that should support your family for some months. If the reason you are not getting support is unrelated to a valid concern or it is because they do not believe in your decision, then you should take their opinion second.
For one, life is too short to get depressed over their disapproval instead of pursuing your passion. Secondly, some people throw shades because they feel insecure about something. They could be showing disapproval because they did not dare to pursue their passion. Thirdly, they may not grasp the reason for your decision to change your lifestyle. You may have projected comfort and satisfaction in your current lifestyle, and as such, they cannot relate to your need for change. Finally, remember you cannot please everyone, you can only do your best.
Anything is Possible
With determination, hard work and discipline, your passion is sure to become a success. Therefore follow your heart wherever it leads you as it will only lead you to a happy life. Remember there are no guarantees, just enjoy the journey while it lasts. Hopefully, the result will be worth it.
