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Writer's pictureAimee Reese

Prioritizing On Oneself


The lives most of us live today have no time for ourselves. The hassle to make ends meet juggling between responsibilities and coping with challenges usually consumes most of the time. It has become a norm that there are things that one should do every day and allocating some time to ourselves is not one of them. This notion has led to the loss of enthusiasm to handle our daily activities and there is no satisfaction in our hearts. The constant demand to follow a daily routine where you have to work all the time every day has decreased the ‘me’ time. It has led to us making compromises by putting other things first rather than prioritizing on ourselves.

Making yourself a priority is a good thing since it helps distress and rejuvenates while unwinding to the daily struggles of life. It helps heal and renew our energy as it creates a reserve for inner peace. That is how important it is to make you a priority. And just how do you make yourself a priority? Well, here are several ways to turn your priority from other things and divert to yourself:

  • Manage your time

The biggest problem when it comes to finding a little ‘me’ time is time management. Most of us are occupied for the better part of the day and once a chance pops up to be free, we end up allocating any unfinished work to it. To set time for yourself requires proper time management skills. Evaluate and omit any time wasters in your schedule to help create time for yourself. Do not be a slave to chores. Plan your time.

  • Ask for help

No man is an island, however, most of us want to do it all by ourselves. This creates no room to prioritize on ourselves and makes us completely worn out. If an activity requires some assistant do not hesitate. Avoid work related stress which can make you ill.

  • Stick up for yourself

Your happiness and health depend on you. Stop and realize your worth by finding some time off to treat and make yourself happy. Once you do this, you will have a complete balance and control over your life. Let nothing drag you down.

  • Get enough rest

Getting a good night sleep is a show of self-priority as it helps calm and clears your mind. For most of us, the impulse is to burn the midnight oil and wake early for the purpose of meeting deadlines or accomplishing several tasks. Help your brain regenerate lost energy and get a good night rest.

  • Exercise

Creating time for exercises is a big part of prioritizing on oneself. Exercises help keep our brain and muscles active and re-energized. Always allocate some time to walk and enjoy mother-nature or time to swim as part of your exercises. Do not do it however as something you have to do. Let it be enjoyable and come from the heart.

  • Pursue what makes you happy

When you set up ‘me’ time, do not feel guilty. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy. During this time you can pursue your hobby or just do nothing.

With the above tips, you will notice great impact in your life and you will be in a better state of mind to tackle life challenges. You will be able to excel and make those around you happy as well. Make yourself a priority today.


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