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Writer's pictureAimee Reese

Ask yourself what matters most


Do you know what your priorities are?

Life is all about choosing your priorities well. In order to get your priorities right, you have to differentiate between which ones are more important than others. Your priorities define who you are in so many different ways. Do you know who you really are? What are your priorities? Is it your spouse, children, health, work, education or personal success? Lack of clear priorities leads to unhappiness, dissatisfaction, anxiety and distracted life. Many people live disjointed, unsuccessful and uncomfortable lifestyles due to not knowing what their priorities are.

It takes non-negotiable integrity, authenticity, honesty, determination, and courage to identify your personal priorities. While it is okay to make sacrifices for others, it is equally important to your own priorities. To experience happiness, you must believe in them and live by them. You cannot achieve great things by jumping from one thing to another aimlessly. You must learn to prioritize on what’s most important if you do not want to taste the feeling of failure at any point of your life. All things are not designed to generate the same results. Some will be successful while others will be irrelevant.

Here are 4 vital guidelines to identifying your priorities

Write them down

Start by identifying the most important priorities in your life and write them down based on their importance. Interestingly, most people cannot even identify what their main priorities are. Challenge yourself today by listing all priorities you consider as most significant. Keeping a journal can impact positively on your life. Writing them down allows you to distinguish what’s essential than the others hence enabling you to align your priorities, time and life effectively.

Rank your priorities

Consider ranking your priorities according to their significance. You cannot afford to have a vague sense when sorting your priorities if you want to be successful. This simple yet sophisticated technique can make your life much better. It allows you to plan your time effectively without inconveniences. Success is all about setting aside adequate time to sort out your most important priorities. You cannot manage to align your time with your priorities if you don’t know where to start. In simple terms, you must learn to invest your time according to your priorities ranking in order to make sound decisions.

Act on your priorities

The next thing after ranking your priorities is to get things done. You must be an action-oriented person if you want to succeed in life. Most people fail to live their dreams due to postponement. Making your priorities action-based can breathe new life into your lifestyle. You will not only achieve greater things but also experience limitless happiness.

Monitor your progress

It is easy to identify your most important priorities, rank them and even act on them. Unfortunately, it is also very easy to find yourself neglecting your priorities due to lack of motivation, low morale, laziness, lack of time and procrastination. It is essential to maintain self-discipline if you want to achieve excellence in executing your priorities. Keep re-evaluating whether you are making progress with your most important priorities and take the necessary steps towards accomplishing them.

Time is never enough, so know your most significant priorities and take the right actions.


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